Things to do to feel more connected to your comfort character irl:

– buy a cologne or perfume that you think they would smell like

– buy an item of clothing you think they would wear, or buy an item of clothing that they wore from the thing they are from

– make a playlist that either reminds you of them, or make a playlist of the kind of music you think they would listen to

– write down or imagine what conversations you would be having with them at different times of your day if they where with you

– name things after them to remind you of them, you could name literally anything, even your favourite mug or a plant

– buy a mug that you think they would like, and place it around your house so you can feel like they live with you

– go on a walk and imagine they are walking with you, try to go a way/go at a time you think they would enjoy

– if you go to a cafe or restaurant, you could buy the thing you think they would order and then imagine their reaction to you trying it, you could act like they told you to try it because it's their favourite

– make up inside jokes you think you would have between just you and them, so when ever the time is right you can imagine their reaction to it in the situation

– decide what to think their favourite color would be, or decide on a color that reminds you of them so you think of them when ever you see that color

– do the activities or hobbies you think they would have/enjoy so you can imagine you doing it with them

– when ever your in a car, imagine you are sitting on their lap and the seat belt is their arm round you

– make matching brackets for you and them, wear the one that is for you and put the one that would be for them in a special place to you

– watch the shows or movies you think they would enjoy watching and pretend you are watching it with them

– think of what their favourite flower would be, so when ever you see that flower you think of them (this can apply for anything, e.g favourite animal, favourite tree, favourite car etc…)

– imagine them comforting you when you are having a bad day

– imagine them being excited and laughing with you when they see you are happy

– imagine them in the corner of the room when you are at school, or work, and imagine their reaction to what is happening or what you are doing

I hope these all helped, just remember you are your comfort characters comfort just as much as they are your comfort! <3

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"Is this goodbye forever?"
"of course not, ill always be right beside you"
"how will i know?"
"when you dance alone, ill be dancing too."